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Elephant whispering for beginners

Metaphor can change the way we think. That’s been known for many years – by politicians, religious leaders, entertainers, advertisers, teachers and more.

In this article Judy Rees uses a powerful metaphor to explore how and why X-Ray Listening works with the unconscious mind. More

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Mark Harris said: “A great article and excellent use of elephant metaphors – really helped to clarify your message.”

How fast thinking can block effective listening

Judy Rees looks at the work of James Borg, author of the bestselling book Persuasion. In this article she explores why listening can be so tricky for some people, and shares three tips to improve your listening. More

“Within twenty minutes of starting the course, we were all practising our first skill, to discover more about each other and build rapport. Each session was well structured, and very participative. Overall it has been a fun, enjoyable and very valuable experience; I have learnt a set of skills that can be applied in every interaction both at work and home.” Corrine Thomas, Team Manager, Skandia

Clean Language: Revealing Metaphors and Opening Minds

The beginners’ “how-to” guide to Clean Language (the technology underpinning X-Ray Listening) and how it really can reveal metaphors and opening minds.

“This book promises to transform the way we think about language and meaning.” Psychologies Magazine.